We're very sorry to hear you were disappointed with your earring purchase, we understand it is difficult to gauge the size of our items from images online, therefore we provide the full specifications for each item on our website under the 'Measurements' tab, to ensure we provide as much detail as possible on our products. Unfortunately we are unable to accept returns on earrings for hygiene reasons and we do hope this is understandable. Thank you again for your feedback and if we can be of any further assistance, please do let us know.