Hi Barbara,
We are thrilled you are enjoying your linens, I would suggest using a little bit of fabric softener in your wash but would strongly recommend using a natural and organic softener. Not putting as much in your wash as you normally would.
The great quality about linen is that with use it does get more softer in time. We have pre-washed our linen so they have aged 3 years before you have used them, so the more use they get the better they will feel.